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It truly is a shame when that happens. I have one family member that is so filled with hate and jealousy that all my friends and family members have to sneak around that person to chat with me. Most of them signed off as Facebook friends in fear that this person will somehow catch them so they write to me here on this blog asking “Please don’t approve this comment cause she will see I am writing to you” and sending me emails with photos of young family members from untraceable Yahoo emails with “Please don’t post these on facebook or anywhere because if she finds out…”
Of course I will never post what my family and NH friends ask me not to. I know how this family member is and I know where her source of hatred comes from and how her source enjoys filling her with hatred cause he has nothing to lose and gives his boring life something to talk about.
Can I blame her? No. I understand her cause as a teenager I was like her. In my 20′s I did exactly what she does now. I was a control freak and I liked to play with people with “If your friends with him then you can’t be friends with me.” and in this case her friends who are just a quick car drive away from her coming into their house and disrupting their lives it is better to distance me and I don’t blame them.
It is just a shame. I thought the hatred would go away when the leader of the hatred passed with old age but apparently the game playing, story telling, mental abuse and hatred had a strong hold on a younger family member and she is really good at it.
So ya’ll remember I will not spill the beans of who is writing to me. I am not WikiLeaks. Your secrets are always safe with me and to all who offered their couch for Halloween I say to you “I am thinking about it but we will keep it our little secret!”